If you have an alternative religious path and you want to “come out” to friends and family it can be a very scary thing. Everyone has different situations. I am not going to pretend like it is easy.
My parents know about my beliefs (mostly) because I have always been outspoken and experimental. Everything & anything I ever could have done to shock them I have done.
If you are ready to “come out” I suggest the things that I have done. Brace yourself! Test the waters first. See what your family and friends think of people like you first. If you get a negative reaction don’t let that scare you off. Plan what you are going to say even though you might not say exactly what you planned to. It’s best to be prepared.
Meditate, pray, or do a ritual that will help calm you down before your big day.
Tell your friends first. You can tell them all at once or one by one. Be careful who tell especially when it comes to friends. People can get nasty and stab you in the back (something a true friend wouldn’t do). Take the time to educate them and dispel any myths.
When you tell your family its best to do it one by one so you don’t get caught in a situation where you are being attacked by a group of people. Your relatives can also give you honest insight on how another relative may respond. Don’t try to argue or persuade anyone to see your side of things. People need time in some situations and the people that really care will always be there. You will feel a better sense of self once you make this decision. If things are bad for awhile don’t sweat it. The shock will wear off. Once the shock wares off do your best not to feed into anyone fears or myths. Read the rest of this entry »
